Ep. 124 | Why You're Snapping at Everyone, and It's Not Just Hormones

If you've been snapping at people you love, shutting down in conversations, or feeling like a stranger to yourself because you're so reactive and irritable — this episode will show you why.

The problem isn't that you're a bad person or "losing it." It's that your nervous system is overwhelmed. When your nervous system is dysregulated, your blood sugar gets dysregulated too — and blood sugar instability equals emotional instability.

In this episode, you'll learn:

  • Why mood swings happen (and why it's not just hormones)

  • The biology behind emotional reactivity: stress spikes cortisol, cortisol crashes blood sugar, and suddenly you're irritable or depleted

  • How hormonal shifts in perimenopause and menopause create a perfect storm for mood instability

  • The Pause + Breathe Reset: 5 slow breaths that activate your vagus nerve and shift you out of fight-or-flight in under a minute

  • A real client story of how catching herself before she snapped changed her relationship with her husband

This is what I teach in my free workshop, "It's Not Just Hormones! Why Nothing's Working in Perimenopause."

Key Takeaways:

  • Mood swings aren't moral failings — they're stress signals

  • When your nervous system is overwhelmed, you become reactive instead of resilient

  • Blood sugar instability drives emotional instability

  • The Pause + Breathe Reset (breathe in for 4, out for 6, five times) activates your vagus nerve and calms your nervous system in real time

  • You can interrupt the pattern before stress hijacks your day

Resources mentioned:

Free workshop: "It's Not Just Hormones! Why Nothing's Working in Perimenopause" — Register at https://cindistickle.com/its-not-just-hormones-workshop

Connect with Cindi:

Take the Quiz: What's Really Behind Your Menopause Symptoms? https://cindistickle.com/quiz

Book a Call: Menopause Hormone Clarity Call https://calendly.com/cindistickle/menopause-hormone-clarity-call

Join the Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/nobsmenopause

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